How one spouse can force another to stay married in 2018
Hugh and Tini Owens were married in 1978. They have two adult children and built a prosperous business which turned over around £5 million a year. However, Mrs Owens was unhappy. She first consulted solicitors about a divorce in 2012, but despite her having an affair the couple continued to live together until February 2015.
In England and Wales, the only ground for divorce is that the marriage has ‘irretrievably broken down’ because of:
- unreasonable behaviour
- separation of two years (provided the other spouse consents)
- separation of five years (no consent required)
Mrs Owens claimed that Mr Owen’s unreasonable behaviour made him impossible to live with. She said he prioritised his work over their home life, his treatment of her lacked love and affection, he was often moody and argumentative, he had disparaged her in front of others, and that she had grown apart from him.
In 2015, Mrs Owens presented 27 examples of Mr Owens unreasonable behaviour to the court. Her husband took the unusual step of defending the divorce. Very few divorces are defended due to the animosity and large legal bills which accompany such an action. If a respondent to a divorce petition objects to the examples of unreasonable behaviour, solicitors for the parties should negotiate to have the particulars of the petition amended.
Because Mr Owens chose to defend the divorce, the trial judge had to examine the examples of unreasonable behaviour and see if they resulted in an irretrievable breakdown of the marriage. In a shocking decision, he held they were not. He stated that Mr Owens was simply “old school” and Mrs Owens was “more sensitive than most wives”.
Mrs Owens appealed, and the Court of Appeal again dismissed her claim. The court held she had she had failed to establish, in the legal sense, that her marriage had irretrievably broken down, despite one judge saying she had reached her conclusion with “no enthusiasm whatsoever”.
Courts cannot change divorce law
The Supreme Court was left with little choice but to uphold the Court of Appeal’s decision. It outlined the test which should be used by the court when assessing a petition involving unreasonable behaviour. It stated the court’s job was:
- to establish, in reference to the claims of behaviour in the petition, what the respondent did or did not do
- to evaluate the consequences the behaviour had upon this particular petitioner in the light of their personality and disposition and of all the circumstances in which it happened
- to make an evaluation whether, because of the respondent’s behaviour and in the light of its effect on the petitioner, demanding that the petitioner should continue to live with the respondent would be unreasonable
Using this test, the Supreme Court agreed with the lower courts’ conclusions, with lady Hale stating that although it was a “very troubling case”, it was not up to judges to change the law.
A positive move forward?
The Divorce (etc.) Law Reform Bill, a Private Member’s Bill introduced to the House of Lords by Baroness Butler-Sloss will require the government to re-examine the current rules around divorce and civil partnership dissolution and consider a no-fault system. This will be welcomed by family law solicitors dealing with divorce, who have to balance the desire by the legal system to encourage couples to work out financial settlements and arrangements for children between themselves against a law which attaches blame in most divorce petitions.
It is hoped that the government listens to the outcry caused by this case and moves to change the law to establish no-fault divorce.
In the meantime, Tini Owen’s has no choice but to wait until 2020 to divorce her husband – the point in which she will have been separated for five years.
That is a long time to be forced to remain in a marriage that is well and truly over. Especially when you are 68 years old.
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